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Thursday, November 27, 2025

Counsellors and therapists are worth it

 

published in Muddy River News Oct. 14, 2025

One of my friends in the Franciscan Order recently celebrated 47 years of sobriety. It has been 47 years since he left a facility that helped religious and priests suffering from alcoholism to achieve sobriety.

Treatment like that was and still is expensive. It took my friend three months in that residential facility before its staff judged that it would be okay for him to return to a normal life. But the treatment was successful. The staff knew what it was doing.

There are many people who work in the mental health services who know what they are doing. Our problem is that we do not want to pay such people in proportion to the benefit that we receive from their services. When a recovering addict returns to society and is able to live as part of a family or church, and is working productively, we do not measure what we have all gained from their recovery.

We do not grumble about the cost of guns and fighter jets and submarines. In recent years we have spent hundreds of  billions of our hard-earned dollars to upgrade our nuclear capabilities, even though we know that if we were ever to use those capabilities, we would destroy the world for human habitation.   

We need to put our dollars where they will really do some good.  We need to use them to pay therapists and case workers and personal assistants. And not just people who help us with our aging bodies. We need to pay the people more who clean our houses or landscape our yards. The people who help us when we are ill or old contribute more to our well-being than material stuff that we buy. Too much stuff goes into storage before it goes to the landfill. We should forget stuff and think people. We need to put our money into helping each other live more fully and more abundantly.

 

 

Changing your mind

 

[published in Muddy River News on November 5, 2025.]

Learning means you change your mind.

Some people never learn. They keep making the same mistakes over and over. We say, “Will they never learn?”

Our two major political parties, the Democrats and the Republicans, are dedicated to keeping us from changing our minds. Nothing the other side says is worth listening to. To a dedicated partisan, changing your mind shows weakness and lack of dedication to the cause.

Our social media are the perfect tools to keep us from changing our minds. The media reward eyeballs on the screen. They make their money by following the crowd.  

Face-to-face contact with other human beings is the best way to get us to change our minds. The most valuable thing that a school can do for students is to help the students get used to listening to living human beings who challenge what the students think.

My father quit school after seventh grade. He realized that he needed to learn things, so he took correspondence courses. After I started getting more education I had trouble talking with him. He seemed to think that if I said something he didn’t like, I was rejecting him. He never had teachers who could have given him the most important benefit of schooling: living teachers who can help you to welcome people who disagree with you.

Good coaches help players to change their minds. You think this is the way to do it, and the coach says, no, you are wrong. I still love you, but THIS is the way to do it.

We religious people experienced a movement in the last century called “ecumenism.” The movement was fueled by the idea that when Christian churches fight each other, they keep other people from accepting any church. The movement gave me a set of rules for talking with people who have different ideas about religion: 1) Keep quiet and listen while the other person states what he or she believes as clearly and forcefully as they can; 2) State your own ideas as clearly and forcefully as you can, and trust the other person to keep quiet and listen while you do that. 3) Let God determine what happens next.

When you let God determine what happens, you may have to change your mind. And we did. We Catholics learned from the Protestants that it is good to read the Bible. I think the Protestants may have learned a thing or two from us Catholics, but you will have to ask them.

The last thing Jesus said in the gospel of Matthew is “Go and make disciples of all nations.” A disciple is a learner. A learner is someone who changes his mind. To be a disciple in religion means to change your mind about what God is like and what God wants.

All of us who do religion are learners. So are all of us who do politics. We all have to get used to changing our minds, and the best way to do that is to communicate with people who don’t think like us. It’s uncomfortable, but didn’t Jesus say that the road to the kingdom is narrow?

Friday, September 26, 2025

My reaction to Bishop Paprocki's statement

Our bishop, Thomas John Paprocki, has publicly objected to the Chicago Archdiocese’s rewarding Senator Dick Durbin for his years of service in government because Senator Durbin has publicly advocated a “pro-choice” position regarding abortion.

Catholic belief that abortion is evil goes back centuries and continues today. Prolife defenders say that opposition to abortion is “natural law.” That means that everyone, regardless of religious belief, should be able to see the evil of the action. People who do not see it are unreasonable, and must be acting in bad faith.

There is a difference between believing that abortion is evil and believing that the government should make “procuring” an abortion a crime, punishable by law. Catholic canon law uses the unusual term “procure,” probably because the decision in favor of abortion is not exclusively the woman’s decision. Men can be equally guilty.

Canon law excommunicates anyone who procures an abortion. It does not excommunicate anyone who murders. People who oppose murder are considered reasonable. People who oppose making the government punish abortion are not unreasonable. I can only speculate that the reason for the special punishment must be that the lawyers believe that more stringent punishment will discourage it.

Something like eighty percent of the population, including eighty percent of Catholics, think that abortion should be legal under some circumstances. That is evidence that allowing abortion legally is not against natural law.

Believing that abortion must be punished by law is a denominational belief, and the Second Vatican Council said that Catholics should respect other people’s denominational beliefs and not require the government to impose those beliefs by law.

I respect Senator Durbin’s statement that he is personally opposed to abortion. That does not make him a hypocrite. As a professional politician, he must believe that making it punishable by law goes beyond what natural law requires and that as a Catholic he is not required to make it a crime.  

People who equate procuring any abortion with killing a child late in pregnancy poison political discourse. Contentious issues should be approached with respect and sensitivity to others’ feelings. That is what it means to love one’s neighbor as oneself.

 

Brother Joe Zimmerman, OFM

 

 

Wednesday, September 10, 2025

The engineer and the prophet



Engineers build things. Prophets take things already built and say what's wrong with those things.

 

But here's where they differ. Engineers know that things they build need upgrading, and so they suggest engineering changes. Prophets point out how the engineering is failing, but they don't suggest using engineering to correct the situation. They tell people how they should change their behavior in order to allow the engineering to work better.

 

Here's an example. Abortion.

 

Most people see abortion as unfortunate, if not downright evil. I shared this statement, verified by numerous surveys, with a Democratic activist, and she reacted with hostility.

 

Democrats come close to saying that abortion is something to be desired. They propose an engineering solution to the issue: set up the laws so that abortions can be procured as easily as possible, even to the point where the government should support getting them.

 

I think this strategy is too optimistic about engineering. If "most people" see abortion as unfortunate, if not downright evil, adopting a position where the politics actively support it is a gift to Republicans. It allows them to demonize Democrats as baby killers.

 

"Prolife" defenders make a similar mistake. They think that an engineering solution will make abortion less desirable. They make abortion illegal and make anyone involved in procuring an abortion guilty of crime. They are correct in believing that most people see abortion as unfortunate, and maybe downright evil, but they have not taken seriously the practical results of trying to criminalize it. Their position is a gift to Democrats. It allows Democrats to demonize them as heartless fanatics.

 

Prophecy

 

Prophets are outside the system, and that means prophets ignore the engineering.

 

We have become so conditioned to seek engineering solutions to everything that we have tied ourselves up in laws and lawsuits. We see a problem and immediately pass a law to fix it. If we have not yet passed such a law, we can enforce our own version of the law by suing someone. We are drowning in laws and lawsuits.

 

Parallels between Abortion and Slavery

 

Prolife theorists have argued that moral appeal had not been enough to overturn the racist effects of slavery on our culture--it took changing the laws, the structures.  They point to the 1954 Brown v. Board of Education decision which outlawed segregated schools as an example.

 

But it has been seventy years since Brown, and racism persists. We did make advances in parts of our country--many more people of color are doing better today than they would have if Brown had never been issued. But we have re-segregated ourselves by housing preferences, and there are many areas where racist behaviors persist. 

 

When I first read the prolife argument, it sounded appealing, because I am a sociologist, and we look for systemic solutions to systemic problems. But I reflected that there are huge differences between abortion and slavery. Slavery was an institution that shaped half the country's laws and institutions, with immense economic consequences. Abortion has an economic component--prolife activists demonize abortion providers, but abortion provision is a negligible part of our economy.

 

There is a reason why we became so optimistic about legal engineering. We observed how defenders of slavery and its Jim Crow replacements used laws to achieve bad ends. The engineering of slavery was so successful that only reverse engineering could free us. 

 

That lesson ignored the power of prophecy. Without prophets like Dr. Martin Luther King, political opposition to the engineering of Jim Crow could not have dismantled the evil engineering. What we now call the "civil rights movement" was prophetic enough to change the engineering.

 

Prolife activists have hoped that engineering the Roe v. Wade decision would reduce the number of people seeking abortions, but that does not seem to be happening. We need prophets who can acknowledge the tragedy that abortion often creates but approach people facing the decision to abort with gospel compassion rather than with threats of violent repression. 

 

Another example: climate change

 

The world is facing an unprecedented challenge caused by engineering gone wild. Our engineering is upsetting the balances of nature to the point where natural disasters are becoming more and more disruptive to the rest of our engineered world. As hurricanes, floods, and fires become more destructive, insurance will become so expensive that most people will not be able to afford it. 

 

The Biden administration attempted engineering solutions to deal with the problem: subsidize wind and solar production. But artificial intelligence requires so much electrical power that its demands are swallowing all the advances we are making in wind and solar. New gas-powered sources of electric power are being constructed to meet the new demand.  Auto manufacturers tell us that bigger and heavier cars are the preference of car buyers these days. Heavier cars consume more energy. We want fast food, and so multinational corporations cut down rainforests to feed cattle to provide that fast food.

 

We need prophets who will have the courage to say to the public: We have to stop expecting our every wish to be fulfilled by engineering magic. To put it in more moralistic terms: if we let every entrepreneur convince people that they need more and more of whatever the entrepreneurs is offering, we will destroy our human environment.

 

The Christian tradition of "mortification" could moderate these trends. Mortification means that you give up something you would like because you hope for a greater good. You could say, "I really would like my fast-food lunch, but for the sake of the greater good I will prepare my lunch at home and use an old-fashioned lunch bucket." Only prophets can motivate that kind of behavior.

 

 

 

 

Monday, September 1, 2025

facial recognition

 What are the facial recognition

       coordinates
       of the face of God?

I’m a Christian
       I hope
       maybe those coordinates
       are of the face of Jesus

       too bad they’re not around
              or aren’t they?

maybe they’re the coordinates
       of someone
       who looks at me
       with love

or maybe
       they’re the coordinates
       of my face
       when I look at someone else
       with love

does facial recognition technology
       work
       over the phone?

Friday, August 15, 2025

STEM needs HALM

    Okay, HALM is not a word. But the words Science, Technology, Engineering, and Mathematics have nothing to do with the word “stem.” I can’t find a word to express what I want to say, so I invent a word: HALM.

    HALM—History, Art, Literature, Music.

    STEM is the fad of the day. STEM is not bad. Science has done wonderful things for us. But STEM is only half of what it takes to live in fully human ways.

    And there is a down side to STEM: it tempts us to think we can control the world.

    There is an old saying: science helps us understand; understanding helps us control.  

    Control can ruin us. The biblical story of the tower of Babel expresses an important human tendency. We can get so enthused about our power to control that we think we are gods, and we replace the real God.

    Science has given us nuclear weapons, which science is warning us are only a few seconds away from destroying all human life. Science and technology and engineering and mathematics are giving us climate change, which is destroying much of the beauty and diversity of life that has surrounded us since evolution produced us.

    We are not in control. The wisdom of many human traditions teach that lesson. The word “Islam” means “submission,” and there are almost as many Muslims in the world as there are Christians. Hubris is the vice of our age. Hubris is STEM gone wild.

    That is why we need to complement STEM with History, Art, Literature, and Music: HALM. Those activities can awaken us to the beauty and value of humility. HALM teaches us that God is important, that we can live fully even with our limitations, that we can be vulnerable to one another, and vulnerability is part of love. HALM reminds us of how our best efforts can go wrong, and how we can recover from wrong.

    STEM tempts us to control. We need HALM to help us be full human beings, enriched by the things we create, not enslaved by them.

 

[published in Muddy River News, August 15, 2025]

Wednesday, August 13, 2025

A Joe Messina poem from last April

Several of us meet in what we call “Writers’ Circle.” It consists of Terry Riddell, his wife Deborah, Paula Peter, Mary Ann Klein, and myself. Occasionally Mary Ann’s husband, Joe Messina, joins us. Terry, Mary Ann, and Joe have all been full-time English faculty at Quincy University. I am a sociological deviant.

Last March I wrote a poem titled “Ferris Wheel.” It is printed in this blog on March 31. On April 10 Joe Messina offered a poem with my name in the title. I suggested putting it on my blog. Joe just gave me (on August 13) the okay to do that.

Here is Joe’s poem:

 

80th birthday: In imitation of Joe Z’s minimalism

 

first a baby cries
then it eats

it doesn’t ask
What does this breast want from me?

Before I was
there were two habits,
breathing and eating.

One day, I felt something for the people who fed me.

they didn’t scare me
they didn’t enrage me any more

what was it?

later someone told me about love
what’s that?

If I don’t know what love is
does  that keep me from loving?

Socrates says we don’t know what friendship is
but that doesn’t keep us from being friends.

A pilgrim poet, whose name I forget
cried How far is it to God?

No answer

He didn’t know what else to do
so he kept on going.

Speaking of going
I have to go to the bathroom
Then I’ll get back to it.

To what?

At 80 I can’t tell my living
from my dying.

What’s happening to me?
You’re dying.
Oh.
Well, let’s not make a fuss about it.

I came noisily
but I can go quietly

The air is sweet today
and ice cream is always good

Though I don’t know what good is.